Earlier this month we celebrated yet another birthday with one of
our good friends.
It was a royal party with a very special guest!
It also posed somewhat of a dilemma for me as a parent which I will get to later.
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| The Birthday Girl |
Cinderella arrived to much fan-fare and took some time for a few photo ops.
Cinderella led the party crowd in
few fun songs and dance routines.
Clara Rose was happy to join in- but Josie tended to hang off to the side as she often
does when presented with a new person who she does not know.
Soon it was time for cake!
While everyone enjoyed cake, Cinderella amzed the crowd with her
face/arm painting talents.
'Most' of the girls requested a princess to be painted on their arm.
I say most, because, two of the girls did not--
namely my two.
So what did Josie and Clara Rose request for their painting?
Josie, being very descriptive asked for
a monkey walking away from a castle.
Clara Rose was more than thrilled to have a
sparkling Penguin painted on her arm.
Next Cinderella showed off more of her
Princess skills by making balloon animals.
Still more-- a pinata filled with yummy treats!
Lastly, the girls were very happy to give the Birthday Girl her present from them.
My Dilemma-- my question . . .
Am I being negligent as a parent?
As most of my friends know, I am not all that 'into' the Princess thing. It isn't that I am anti-Princess (OK, maybe a little) I was a big fan of the Grimms version and was not too happy with the Disney interpretations.
I have been told by one co-worker that I am taking away their ability to
hope and dream by not doing more with the Princess thing.
I'm not quite buying into that either.
As it has worked out-- Neither Josie or Clara Rose are all that into Princesses either.
Not that they aren't exposed to Princesses-- they go to Preschool and PreK.
They see the stuff that their friends at school have.
We've watched a couple Princess movies and Josie
tends to ask how much longer the movie will be.
So, at this party-- both of my girls had very little, if any, idea of who Cinderella is and why everyone was making such a fuss (at least until the fun stuff started).
I felt a little guilty that all of the other girls were sooo excited and mine were more like,
"Who? What?"
And, at this point with Clara Rose, I am kind of thinking that I would happily trade Dora for the Princesses!