Wednesday, November 21, 2012

More Books

Here are a few more books to complement the month of November being national reading month as well as national adoption awareness month.


Read this one with a box or two of tissues nearby.

It is heartbreaking.
In this deeply moving and myth-shattering work, Ann Fessler brings out into the open for the first time the astonishing untold history of the million and a half women who surrendered children for adoption due to enormous family and social pressure in the decades before Roe v. Wade. An adoptee who was herself surrendered during those years and recently made contact with her mother, Ann Fessler brilliantly brings to life the voices of more than a hundred women, as well as the spirit of those times, allowing the women to tell their stories in gripping and intimate detail.


Wild Swans is one of my favorite books.
It chronicles three generations of Chinese women and I think provides
one with some insight to the History of life in China for women.

Blending the intimacy of memoir and the panoramic sweep of eyewitness history, Wild Swans has become a bestselling classic in thirty languages, with more than ten million copies sold. The story of three generations in twentieth-century China, it is an engrossing record of Mao's impact on China, an unusual window on the female experience in the modern world, and an inspiring tale of courage and love.

Jung Chang describes the life of her grandmother, a warlord's concubine; her mother's struggles as a young idealistic Communist; and her parents' experience as members of the Communist elite and their ordeal during the Cultural Revolution. Chang was a Red Guard briefly at the age of fourteen, then worked as a peasant, a "barefoot doctor," a steelworker, and an electrician. As the story of each generation unfolds, Chang captures in gripping, moving -- and ultimately uplifting -- detail the cycles of violent drama visited on her own family and millions of others caught in the whirlwind of history.

Friday, November 16, 2012

Josie's Big Birthday Bash

Josie asked for a specific party place because
she wanted to climb this mechanical rock wall
for her 6th Birthday.

Climb it she did!

Look at ther go! 

Many of her friends came to celebrate
her party-- including a two boys from her class. 

There was lots to do from fort building,
to giant doll-houses. . . 

Bouncy House . . .


mini-basketball,

ping-pong,

Wipeout on Xbox,

more fort building 

Soon it was time to line up and head to
the next party room. 

The big birthday cake featuring . . .
(at the request of the birthday girl who
did want to actually see the cake ahead of time)

Josie and Clara Rose in a heart
with
Sponge Bob, Patrick and Gary

Blowing out candles
(Clara Rose is totaly tired of Josie's birthday)


Next it was present time. 

Clara Rose got a little emotional and
received som much needed love from Daddy.

Josie was thrilled with all her presents. 

At the end of it all, Josie handed out party favors
to all her guests and thanked them for coming to her party. 

Relaxing at home in a new Birthday house-coat while
decorating her Birthday purse. 

It was good weekend and Josie had a lot of fun.
I think the best part for me was on the drive home after her big party--
Josie new Clara Rose was feeling sad that it wasn't her party--
Josie said to Clara Rose, "Clara Rose, do you know the best part of my birthday?"
"Having my little sister next to me all day!"

Clara Rose beamed the rest of the night while she played
with some of Josie's new toys.

Bye-Bye Five

Last Weekend was the momentous occasion of Josie turning 6-years old!

The birthday-girl her first morning as a 6-year old!


Josie opted to wait until the evening after dinner to open her presents.

We made a truckload of cupcakes and brought them to the
China Cares playgroup in the afternoon.

It was a fun afternoon and all of Josie's China Care friends
sang Happy Birthday to her. 
Josie with her China Care friend.
At the request of the birthday-girl, we had breakfast for dinner--
pile on the bacon!

Don't forget the ketchup! 

Next it was time for a few presents!

Josie was all smiles opening her gifts. 

Clara Rose was happy to get her Consolation
"Boo-hoo, it is your sister's birthday and not yours," present. 
Breakfast for dinne?

What better to follow that than a delicious doughnut cake?



After flying high from a sugary high . ..
everyone crashed for some cartoons. 

Friday, November 9, 2012

We See the Moon

For any parents through adoption who find it difficult to talk with your children about
adoption or who aren't sure how to begin discussions with your child(ren) so they know it is OK for them to ask questions and express their feelings, you may want to consider reviewing this book.


An elegant and evocative book for adopted children to open the birthparent and adoption dialog between parent and child.

Many adult adoptees have gone through life wanting to ask questions about their birthparents, but felt the thoughts they have might make their parents uncomfortable. Then, these questions have remained unasked and unanswered. "We See the Moon" opens the adoption dialog at an early age by allowing the questions in your child's heart to be asked and discussed, creating the foundation for conversations to come.
This is a story written from the child's perspective, asking the questions that dwell in their hearts about their birthparents...What do you look like? Where are you now? Do you think of me? It will help children use the moon as a private tool to connect with a family that is always with them in their hearts.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

China Care Olympics

The girls had a fun event this past weekend with the University's China Care Program.

I think I have mentioned before that the China Care Program is a non-profit
organization that raises funds to pay for surgeries needed by orphans in China who will otherwise not likely recieve the surgery needed.

The organization is largely made up of college chapters who also provide mentors
to children adopted from China.

This weekend the Chapter we participate with held an
Olympic themed fundraiser.

Josie and Clara Rose with their friends Carly and Claire.

There were lots of games to play with small prizes. 


There were a few different shows throughout the afternoon. 

Clara Rose and her friend Grace giving it
their all in a leap frog race. 

A Lion Dance Performance. 
After the Lion Dance Show, the kids were invited
to get a closer look at some of
the Lion Costumes.

The "Baby Purple" Lion is a huge fave! 

Look at that cute baby Lion Dancer! 

Clara Rose was one thrilled little girl! 

It was a fun afternoon for everyone! 

Friday, November 2, 2012

The Busy Month of November

November is apparently a very busy month.
National Native American Heritage Month;
National Diabetes Awareness Month;
National Pancreatic Cancer Month; 
National Novel Writing Month- and many bloggers take on the task of writing a post every day.
Interestingly enough, the Department of Ed has also declared the month of November to be National Reading month-- I guess to complement all the writing that is suppose to occur.
November is also National Adoption Month and many bloggers who are part of adoption mosaic take on the task of blogging daily about adoption from their perspective.
I might do a little bit of blogging on adoption, but most likely not much.
I feel like there are already plenty of adoptive parents and agencies out there blogging about adoption.
I encourage folks to click on some of the adoptee blog links I have on the side bar and read what they have to say.

Since November is also National Reading Month, you may also want to try reading the book displayed above-- if you have not already read it.



Halloween Partys

The weekend before Halloween kept us on our toes!

The girls had some super fun Halloween parties and
we had to prep for Hurricane Sandy.

Clara Rose and Josie dressed in their Halloween best for
the YMCA Halloween party.

There were lots of games to play.

Fun crafts to make.




Many fun Halloween decorations.

We also had a fun time at our
Town's Halloween party.

They have a Halloween Egg hunt.

The girls and a couple friends checking out their eggs.

Josie found an egg with a ticket in it
and won this Halloween light wand.

There were some interesting creatures at the party!

Never Fear Wish Fairy, Bat Girl is on the job
keeping all of us safe!